You have a Choice

Precious people, 

No one can perpetually intimidate, manipulate or control you, unless you let them. Intimidation, manipulation or control is not among the fruit of the spirit. 

Read this moving story, by Blaise Foret: 

Why I Left IHOPKC and How I was Treated When I Left // MY STORY

Nobody likes to be manipulated or controlled...

"Nobody likes to be manipulated or controlled except for unhealthy people who exchange their submission for supposed protection." - Donald Miller

Read more, here.