Here is a rough guide on how to judge a person. Feel free to improvise:
1. Make sure that we don't know the person from Adam and/or have had only very minimal interactions with him/her.
2. Observe the person closely through the filter of preconceived notions.
3. Without trying to understand where his/her views might be coming from, choose to be offended by his/her comments or actions.
4. Conclude that he/she does not fit "my" mold of how he/she "should be".
How to be free from the plague of judging:
Love unconditionally - because we don't have the slightest clue of what someone may have been through in life. This may not necessarily be easy as it sounds, but it's so worth it.
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